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Do you make this “innocent” parenting mistake?
Through seemingly harmless interactions and actions, you could be unknowingly burdening your child with damaging beliefs that hinder her success at school, and lead to depression and low self-esteem later in life. Give her a better present and future with the parenting science of Belief Shaping.
What 9 in 10 parents don’t know about raising childern.
You may be aware that 75% of your child’s brain mass is developed after birth–and that the first 6 years of your child’s life is their golden window for learning. In this time, their brains are like sponges, absorbing information and paradigms that will stick with them for a lifetime.
The study of epigenetics, however, takes this theory one step further. Through extensive research, acclaimed cellular biologist Dr. Bruce Lipton has found that our emotions and beliefs actually rewrite our genetic code.
In other words our beliefs define who we are, even on a cellular level. And in the case of a child, those crucial learning years will determine how the rest of their lives play out.
Unfortunately most parents are unaware of this fact, and resort to a shallow ‘cause and effect’ parenting style. If a child is a messy eater, take their cutlery away and spoon feed them. If they scribble on the wall, confiscate their crayons. If they get in trouble at school, ground them.
On the surface all these seemingly innocent actions may seem harmless, but have you ever stopped to wonder how they’re affecting your child in the long run? Here’s a real life example:
How Maggie came to believe she’s not good enough
Carol always made it a point to tell her daughter Maggie how wonderful she was but had a habit of saying “I know you can do even better” immediately after.
So whether it was cleaning her room, getting straight A’s and a B or getting one goal instead of two at a soccer game, Carol always pointed out what Maggie could have done to be even better.
Maggie was 9 years old when she suddenly became an underachiever. Her teachers said they knew she was a smart kid, and had no idea what had caused her sudden dip in performance and enthusiasm.
By the time Judy was 12 her lack of motivation peaked, and she quit the soccer team she used to love. Why? Because she had formed the belief that “I’ll never be good enough no matter what I do, so why even bother?”
Given that you interact with your child hundreds of times in any given day, how do you circumvent all these potential belief booby traps? That’s where the parenting science of belief shaping comes in.
Become a belief-conscious parent today.
On this page we’re giving away FREE access to the Belief Shaping Kit, a 4-part series on beliefs, and how to avoid and correct the common belief shaping mistakes most parents make.
Presented by Shelly herself, this series is our single most popular introductory training material–and it gives you some of the exact same content Shelly shares with her clients at private one-on-one sessions.
Belief shaping is practiced by over 12000 parents worldwide–and it could be the most valuable skill you ever learn as a parent.
It will help you nurture hidden talents, fix unwanted behaviors, and raise happy children who grow in to successful, fulfilled adults.
It’s not just good for your child,
it’s good for you too!
You’ll become a more confident and content parent. You’ll enjoy a better relationship with your child. And because you’ll have a better insight into your actions and more skills and tools in your parenting arsenal, you’ll no longer be affected by the crippling stress of raising a child right, or the question of “am I doing right thing?”
Your adventure into belief-conscious parenting starts here. Just sign up in the box at the top or bottom of this page, and we’ll email you access to your FREE Belief Shaping Kit.
“Parenting the Lefkoe Way has changed my life drastically ”
“I’m working on Parenting the Lefkoe Way so I can learn how not to continue to teach the beliefs I learned as a child to my children. I am so glad I found you Shelly Lefkoe. As a result, my life and the life of my family has changed tremendously.”
“I wish I had found Parenting the Lefkoe Way sooner”
“I recently bought your CDs and they have been SO helpful, I only wish I’d found them sooner. I have much work to do with my beliefs and my own self esteem. I am the youngest of thirteen and grew up around a lot of yelling, fighting & stress. But I am committed to not repeat. My daughters are 5 & 8.Thank you “
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“Parenting the Lefkoe Way is a great tool for struggling parents”
“Parenting the Lefkoe Way is a great tool for parents that are struggling with their kids’ behaviours and are looking at their behaviours as the problem. It is a great program to make parents aware of the whole which includes them (the parents) and their parenting style. Since awareness has to come first before people can change, the program can help parents with this important and essential first step.”
Here’s what you’ll receive when you sign up.
Shelly Lefkoe’s FREE 4-Part Belief Shaping Kit
The little-known truth about beliefs
What are beliefs, and how do they silently carve out our children’s future? In this opening report you’ll learn the importance of beliefs, and why they can be profoundly empowering or terribly damaging. The truth may surprise you!
The 10 mistakes every parent makes that lead to negative beliefs
The tricky part about negative beliefs is that they often come from the unlikeliest places. Even the most well-meaning action or advice given out of pure love can lead to the formation of one. In this crucial video you’ll learn to spot and avoid the 10 most common parenting mistakes that can embed negative beliefs in your child.
How we burden our children with negative beliefs
What do negative beliefs look and sound like? What are the tell-tale signs of negative beliefs forming in your child? This eye-opening interview will show you why every problem in your adult life can be traced back to beliefs formed in your childhood.
What is your job as a parent?
Providing for our children is important; however, as parents we ask ourselves “What can I do to help my child thrive?” In this final report you’ll learn the crucial role that you as a parent play in shaping your child’s future beliefs.
Why is Shelly giving away this Belief Shaping Kit for free?
“I became a parenting educator because in my more than 25 years as Lefkoe Method Facilitator I saw countless people who were stuck and unhappy come to me with problems ranging from lack of motivation and procrastination to depression, anxiety and low self-esteem.
What I’ve found is that most of these problems are formed during childhood, from often well-meaning parents who are unknowingly crippling their children with negative beliefs.
Belief Shaping is the solution to this problem.
After seeing the massive positive impact it can make, not only on my daughters but on the thousands of parents I’ve shared it with, it is my personal mission to spread this knowledge to as many parents as possible.
Giving away this free series is part of that commitment, and after you watch it I hope that you are inspired to continue this journey with me.”